If we are not careful in life, it is easy for our mindset/focus to pick up on the negative. It becomes easy to dwell on the hurts, and pains. We waste a lot of time and energy on who/what is gone.

I would like to write today about who stays. A lot of life is lost on who left. I am not referring to a job change, a new church, moving, etc. etc. I am talking about who stayed in your life…..those connections that never get lost. Those people who love you, they may see you once every ten years…..but they love and support you. The people who good or bad, happy or sad…..they are solid in your life. An offense does not keep them away. It is a reliable relationship full of respect, care, and love. They listen to understand. They provide protection, and a safe place……no walking on eggshells. The ones that stay are trustworthy, honest, empathetic, and loyal to name a few. The ones that stay clap when you win. The ones that stay want the happiest and best life that God has purposed for you.

So as I am spending much more of my time focusing on who stays, I pray you will too. Instead of racking our brain on why Susie Q left, or is no longer in touch……just leave it alone.. If your heart is pure, and conscience is clear……release them. Spend your life on loving and supporting who stays. I am trying to be more intentional on texting, calling, blessing, etc. those who are a staple in my life. So join me in focusing on who stays, and return to them the beauty they share. Your tribe/village is a blessing from God, give it your effort, energy, and enthusiasm. They are worth it!!!! They stayed!!!!